I've decided to do something I've never done before, and share my “Awesome Quotes” board with you guys. I also have a book suggestion for you ladies out there. I've been seriously debating whether or not I should post this reading suggestion on my blog, since anyone can read it-people I date included. I feel, however, like I'm doing a disservice to all of those ladies out there that haven't been told about this book if I don't post it on here. So at the end, check out my rec!!
I did screen shots of my board, and will talk about my favorite ones, and why I like them. I am in a period of my life where I am experiencing a lot of growth. All of my distractions have been removed from my life, and now I can look deep inside to the person I really am, become even better, and learn to love myself even more. This is why I am sharing these with you guys. I think we all need to stop and self-evaluate every once in a while. Not only to improve, but also to see how far we have come! Ok, here we go:
What I like about this one is that is points out the importance of setting boundaries in relationships. If you don't set the boundary, you cannot be mad when your line gets crossed. I've learned this the hard way in my past experiences. Trust me, I have learned! If you don't know how set healthy boundaries, you can start by realizing that “no” is a complete sentence. Also, follow your gut. I have a tendency to ignore mine sometimes, and it's always been the wrong decision. In other words, be honest with yourself even when it hurts. Easier said than done, I know!
“I love the person I've become, because I've fought to become her.” This couldn't be more true for me.
“Smile…….” I try to do this at work, and it's so hard sometimes! It's true, though, and it works!! 😀
Let go of what was, and bless those who walk away-they are making room for those who won't. Also so true. I've learned to let go of what apparently was not meant to be, and it is liberating.
My friend Kat has the best advice ever. EVER! I have realized that when one door closes for one reason or another, I am really being re-directed toward something better. This has changed my outlook upon relationships, my career, and almost every other aspect of my life. She said this to me once at dinner, and I've never forgotten. When I saw that quote, I thought of her. Sophia Loren knew what she was talking about, as well. (The blue one.)
I solve my own problems: ie. garbage disposal. Never will I be with someone that causes me more problems than I already have. I'm happier by myself. That is huge for me. I never imagined I'd be as happy alone as I am. That is the first step toward being ready to share a life with someone: being ok alone. It allows me to have a take it or leave it attitude in my relationships. Again, liberating.
These are all fun. My favorite one is Eminem's quote. Stand up for what you believe in even if it means it not everyone is going to like you. What other people think of you is none of your business. I'm still working on this one, but I've come a long way baby!
As I said before, rejection is God's way of saying “wrong direction.” Try having that perspective next time you feel rejected. See if it helps. With practice, it will – promise!
“Don't put your life on hold waiting for love.” – see the book suggestion below for more on this one.
“I survived that which was supposed to kill me.” For me, alcoholism could've killed me, or God forbid, someone else. So far, I have survived, and I am grateful. What have you survived? Whatever it is, be grateful everyday.
Horizontal pauses…..yes. I enjoy them. Too much. Haha
Both Bible verses are just awesome. I find myself looking back at my past experiences, and now seeing their purpose. It's pretty cool, actually. Hindsight truly is 20/20. Now, every purpose of my past may not be revealed to me yet, and that's ok. I'm sure I'll understand later, as the verse says.
The white one talks about how every woman deserves to be appreciated, and I truly believe this. I don't necessarily need all of those things to feel self worth, but knowing I am appreciated and cherished is important to me. How about you?
The light blue one is me to a “T”. (Is that how it is put on paper? “To a T” ?) Y'all know what I mean. I'm late to everything. Usually it has to do with either my inability to get up in the morning, or my excessively long primping routine when I am getting fancy. Or maybe it's my tendency to procrastinate until the very last minute…….still working on that one, that's for sure!
That one speaks for itself.
The very first one about forgetting how you feel and remembering what you deserve can be interpreted in a few ways. I interpret it as even if it hurts to be alone or lonely, don't just give in to temptation because it will give you instant gratification. Take a step back, feel the feeling, and don't give in if you feel like you feel like you deserve better. Does this make sense at all? As in, he/she isn't good for you, so don't spend time with that person just because you want to fill the void and not be alone. If you deserve better, drop him! (Or her, or whoever!) Another interpretation is to quit only going off of emotions, and use your head more often.
Then we have the next one, which is also true. “Your heart knows things that your mind can't explain.” The key here is balance. Definitely progress, not perfection for me, when it comes to balance.
Below that basically says shit or get off the pot. I like this one. Either you're done with the past, or you're not. You're either in or you're out. Make a decision. Quit being fickle. You can't have it both ways. I'll let you make your decision in your own time, on your own terms. Just don't expect me to wait for you.
I really like the bird on the tree one, and the lighter orange one. Believe in yourself. Have faith in God.
I love every one of these! We all fight our own battles, we struggle, we experience loss, and some of us have been pulled out from the depths in one way or another. These experiences mold who we are and allow us to relate to one another in such a deep way. My friends are my back bone. By friends, I am also including those members of my family I am close to. I am grateful for all of you and I love you!
Speaking of friends, the “friends until we're old and senile” quote is hysterical!
Apparently, I have inspired people by sharing my journey over these past few years. I really had no idea the impact it has had until I was told. This means the world to me, you guys. If I can inspire even one person to be healthier, to live a better life, to be a better person, it is all worth it to me.
I believe 100% that we don't meet people by accident. God has put people in my life for a reason. Nothing is a coincidence to me. There's too much evidence in front of me to not believe this. For that, again, I am grateful.
My sponsor (who is amazing) says that when the next thing you're going to lose is more important than your addiction, that's your rock bottom. This was completely true for me. Think about it…..
Buddha-perfect. F. Scott Fitzgerald-damn right. The bottom right one that says “When it is all finished, you will discover it was never random” directly correlates to one I already talked about above.
More good ones above. It will take a lot to make me love you more than coffee. Consider yourself lucky if I do lol!! (Mostly kidding.)
To react with no reaction is powerful, mature, and takes a lot of self control. You kno, the whole “pause when agitated” thing really holds true!
Ignore the cauliflower alfredo sauce. Pinned it to the wrong board. Although, it is really good. I've tried it!
I want to fulfill my purpose, and use up all of the talent I have been given. What a cool quote!
Yes my friends….good grammar IS sexy. If in doubt, ask me. If I don't know, I'll ask my Mom :-).
The iPhone screen shots are just hilarious. Enjoy them!
The quote in the top row with the girl on huge track is my favorite in this one. It's so true for me. Tell me I can't do something, and it'll motivate me even more to do it and prove you wrong.
Yes, grass might turn greener if you water it. However, I have learned that you can water the grass, but you can't force it to drink the water.
Holding a grudge…..it only hurts you.
That's it my friends. I hope you enjoyed this and it got you thinking a little bit about life. Self-reflection is a great thing to do around the New Year. Set realistic goals for yourself as resolutions if you choose to do so. Don't diet, change your lifestyle. This has to be done with baby steps, one day at a time. Don't be too hard on yourself. Love yourself and only allow positive people into your life. Set boundaries and don't be afraid to say no. You are more amazing, more beautiful, and more special than you even know. Don't forget that!
Happy Trails and Merry Christmas!
Stacey
P.S. The book you need to read…..comment below and I'll email you the name and picture of the book. We can't give away all of our secrets, now can we ladies?
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I love these!!! Self reflection is a great thing even if its painful at times.
Thanks for your friendship and hope for a better 2014.
Same here girl!! So glad we are friends and yes-2014 will be even better! Thanks for stopping by!
I love these quotes! I may have to follow you on pinterest now 🙂 I love looking back on my year and how far I’ve come – I think we’ve all been through some tough times this year and it always makes me feel better to be able to say that I survived. My pinterest quotes have helped a lot!
Thanks so much Kristen! I’m Pugmamastace in Pinterest, too